
Communication
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There are many theories and methods for connecting with children. Many relate to attuning to the individual child, while being mindful of your own behaviours. Therefore, listening and observing the child is more important than ideology. As is an acceptance that it is not possible to be perfect.
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On the subject of imperfection, I quite like this article: 8 Things You Should Never Say to Someone Who Has Just Given Birth
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Cuddles
Baby likes physical contact, eye contact and generally as much attention as humanly possible. However, recently Baby doesn't mind kicking on the changing mat, or watching us wash up, providing we respond with a cuddle when asked.
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7 Parenting Tips for a World That Harms Women
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Science says parent's of successful children have these 13 things in common

Skin to skin
Our hospital was very keen on skin to skin contact, delayed cord clamping, and other natural birth stuff. However, these were not possible for medical reasons. We had skin to skin contact later in hospital, and still regularly at home. This can be: when feeding, hanging out listening to music, or in the bath.
FHS HK
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UNICEF UK

Contrary to the insistence of all medical people, it is pretty hard to get a baby to sleep in a cot...

Shared responsibility
Daddy has been taking time off and working from home, which has meant he can do all the housework, cooking, and some childcare. This means I have had lots of time to get to know baby. We also have help from my parents. I am aware this is not possible for most people, and we are very lucky.
Bringing Partnership Home: A Model of Family Transformation
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Partnership Cultures: Beginning at the Beginning through Parenting

Baby Signing
We have started to use some signs with Baby, although it is too early. I wanted to get in the habit as it is hard to remember.

Baby Wearing
Baby loves looking around and sleeping in the carrier when we go out. At home I can manage jobs like tidying or vacuuming, but haven't figured out carrying a washing basket or doing the dishes, or anything which requires us to stand still. Plus, I'm never sure what to do when Baby sleeps.

Baby led potty training
This is the practice pf learning to recognise the signals babies give when they need the toilet. I have found it requires me to be more attentive toward Baby.